Day 33 ~ Defects

I discussed with my counselor how to approach my son's comment about not being able to improve behaviors that he doesn't like. "What if I am like that?" She said that the way to look at it is to consider those tendencies he doesn't like in himself not as flaws, but just bad habits--the sooner he gets rid of them, the easier it will be to do it. And also, to present those weaknesses to him (and to all of us) as areas where we haven't reached full maturity.